Sunday, January 22, 2012

#SundaySetlist

In the Worship Leader blogging world there is a following titled #sundaysetlist where worship leaders will post about their sunday worship services and tweet the songs that they did. I am going to start sharing about once a series or so what we are doing on sundays to first, help me reflect on what all happened in our worship service, and also as a resource if someone else wants to incorporate what we are doing.  I have gotten many different ideas from others who have posted their #sundaysetlist and I hope when I post on ours, we can give ideas to others.


Right now we are in the middle of our series Multiply.  This series is all based out of Matthew 28, the great commission.  We are focusing on the idea of discipleship, which can be broad, but we have to have a strong foundation on what we believe "go and make disciples" means.  Last week Pastor Josh Hossler (our lead pastor) laid some groundwork explaining before we can make disciples we first need to make sure that we know what we are to be discipling.  We must examine ourselves and ask the tough question "are we modeling what Christ considers a good disciple to be?"  This week Pastor Bill Hossler, the president of the Missionary Church (as well as Josh's dad),  gave us some strong challenges.  He gave us some of the different aspects of what the Missionary Church believes "discipleship" is.  For me this series hits home because I am a Pastor of Worship & Discipleship.  I believe when it comes to discipleship the best way is with others!  We see discipleship from our small groups, mentoring those not as spiritually mature as ourselves, even doing life together serving in a particular ministry you see true discipleship.  If you feel you need discipleship, you need to be involved in your local church!

Here is our worship flow:

Welcome 

   Lord, Almighty - Kristian Stanfill version

Worship Set

   Not to Us - Passion version
       Scripture References: Psalm 115.1 & Psalm 66.1f
 
   Hosanna - Hillsong United version
 
   Jesus Messiah - Chris Tomlin version

Announcements - Tony


Message - Bill Hossler

   Multiply (week 2 of series)

Offering & Closing Song

   From the Inside Out - Hillsong United version

Dismiss - Tony


Things I'm working on as a WL:
  - We start at 10.30a and it seems most people don't come in until around 10.40a or 10.45a.  I want to create an atmosphere of anticipation and excitement.  For me, I am so excited about our Sunday gatherings and I want to make every minute as intentional as I can.  I want to share that desire with the congregation so I am starting to lead us into worship as soon as I can and follow the worship set with announcements instead of having them at the beginning.

  - I want to see our congregation engaged in worship.  So many times I've been in services where I have had worship leaders basically give a "performance" and I want the congregation to be actively involved in our worship.  To achieve this I have been giving vocal cues for them to sing and I back away from the mic.  Also, I have used some scripture verses to "coach" them as we are in worship.  So far we have had a great response from the church as far as participation. 

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Getting Settled In

Just thought I would give a small update with some pictures of our new place.  We are doing well and the house is completely unpacked and we are loving it!  We are so lucky to be here and there have been many doors God has opened up for us to make it happen.  I started working at the church on Tuesday and have already met with some of the worship band members and I am starting to get used to my responsibilities at the church.  I am excited about Sunday's worship service, which will introduce us to the church as a whole.  I led worship once in October, but since then the church has switched locations so it will be different.  The church is a "portable church" which means they meet somewhere other than their own facility.  Every sunday morning they set up the whole church from the children's classrooms all the way to the sound system and chairs in the main room.  It's exciting to be part of that.  Here is a short video of what they do...


This is at the other school that they were meeting in.  The reason they are meeting in schools is because it's so expensive for property up here, it is the cheapest route to go.  There are many churches that meet in other's facilities in this area.
  So.. back to our house... Here are some pictures of what we have done with the place.  It is very spacious!  Technically it's a condo (there are other houses connected on both sides of ours) but it's so massive that we don't even realize it.  I didn't take a picture of the backyard, but there is a 20'x12' deck on the back and a pond with fountains.  Very nice.  The weather up here has been incredibly warm and I'm sure that we will see snow soon.  As for now, we will enjoy the 35-45 degree weather :)  Please keep us in your prayers as we still get settled in and make more connections with people in the church.  We are doing well and loving life right now!


This is the Entryway when you walk in the house.  To the left is the stairs to the basement

 One of my favorite rooms in the house... the garage, which for now fits all our toys in there!


 Master bedroom.  We painted the blue.  There is a big window with a great view of the pond. The Master bathroom is on the right.


 This is the hallway between the two bedrooms and a full guest bathroom, which is very purple. :) The closets in the master bathroom are huge!  Ashley loves all the storage space in the house.  You can see we were still unpacking the guest bedroom when this picture was taken :)

Kitchen. Ashley making cookies, pj patiently waiting for cookies. :) I am standing in the laundry room, which has a huge pantry and a door to the garage.

 Guest bedroom.  There is also a desk in the room, but I couldn't fit it in the picture.

 My new office.  Love this!

 My new desk.  The MacBook Pro on the left is my new work computer.

 Picture of how big the basement is. Room for a pool table :)

 Home theater. nuff' said :)

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Mellingers On The Move

   If you haven't heard by now, Ashley and I are moving at the end of the month!  Ashley and I have felt called to join the team of a church in Chesterfield Michigan (northeast Detroit).  We decided last year around this time we wanted to take a year off of ministry to spend with each other.  We had gotten married in May 2010 and realized the life of ministry is very fast paced with many long nights at the church and we wanted our first year of marriage to be a strong foundation for the rest of our lives.  I resigned from my youth pastor position at Cross Community Church and have been working at Sears and Family Christian stores in Fort Wayne part time while Ashley was a nurse at Parkview Hospital.  This year has not been wasted at all.  Ashley and I grow closer to each other every day and the one year break has given us a chance to just "be married."  We have been able to go on some trips, we have been able to focus on each other, and focus on our love for Christ as a couple.  I would strongly suggest this for any newly wed couple involved in ministry.  Now that this year is ending, we are going to start a new position, together, on the same page and I am very excited about where God is leading us!
   I accepted the position of Pastor of Worship & Discipleship at Evident Church in Chesterfield MI.  This church is 3 years old as of September and is part of the Missionary Church denomination. My position is twofold: First I will be focusing on leading the sunday morning worship, and overseeing and directing the portability team, tech, and guest services. I'm excited about having the chance to not only use the musical gifts God has given me but also the opportunity for me to teach a church congregation weekly about what true worship really is.  So many times we think that worship is just the "music" portion of the church service and it's so much deeper than that!  Worship is a daily activity, and God only accepts authentic worship from us!  Our whole purpose in life is to worship God!  We were created just for that: to bring God pleasure.  What a calling!  Right now I am reading a book titled "The Purpose of Man: Designed to Worship" by A.W. Tozer and it is so uplifting because it is reminding me of why I am here on earth!  It's not to gather "stuff" or to become educated, or even for my own pleasure.  God created us in his image, with an intellect that has the capacity like none other to understand his love and grace.  Because we have this type of intellect, we can give Him pleasure by offering pure worship to Him!  What an amazing calling for our life!  The second part of my position will be directing certain aspects of the discipleship ministries of the church, plugging laypersons into positions they can help serve this local body, and assisting the Lead Pastor, Josh Hossler, as needed in other areas as a partner in ministry.  Ashley and I are so excited about joining this team of Christ followers.  We will be moving on December 31st, after we spend some time in St. Louis with Ashley's family for the Holidays.  Please pray for us as we switch gears from living in Fort Wayne to moving to a different community and joining a new church family.  God has blessed us so much in the past few months!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

I've been spending a lot of time with my guitar lately.  Last month I led worship at a church in Michigan and it reminded me how important worship leading is.  I was reading an article today and I thought  Rob Still had some great points that I wanted to share with everyone! Sometimes it's so easy for us to get wrapped up in the band, or which songs, or even whether or not we like the singer's voice, but it's so much deeper than that.  As a worship leader, you are called to lead everyone not only musically but also spiritually.  It's a big challenge!  
~Tony

1. Leading worship is … primarily a spiritual activity.
”God is spirit. He is looking for worshipers in spirit and truth.” John 4:24
“Worship of the true and living God is essentially an engagement with him on the terms that he proposes and in the way that he alone makes possible” David Peterson, Engaging God (20, 283).
2. Leading worship is secondarily a musical activity. Nevertheless it is to be done skillfully (Psalm 33)
3. The leadership aspect varies according to your role. Not only do you lead with your instrument or voice, you also lead with your whole countenance and how the congregation experiences you.
4. Leading Worship is a combination of art forms requiring skill, talent, aptitude, knowledge, understanding, insight, wisdom and discernment.
  • Music is an art.
  • Leadership is an art. So is preaching of the word.
  • Leading Worship is a unique art form converging these aspects with spiritual sensitivity and “anointing” – that is, the power God to do His work, His way.
5. As a leader of worship therefore, you are called to a lifestyle of personal spiritual growth and maturity that is, discipleship.
  • No, you don’t have to suddenly become “super spiritual”. You do however, need to understand that your role is much more than learning and playing music.That’s where this is going. Leading worship is primarily a spiritual activity.
  • There is grace for you to start as you are, where you are, right now. You just have to be headed towards growing in the Lord.
6. To lead spiritually therefore, by definition, you can not take people where you have not gone yourself. So you have to lead yourself deeper spiritually in order for people to follow your leadership.
  • You lead by the overflow of your heart. (Matthew 12:34, Luke 6:45)
  • David is a primary example of a heart that pleases God. He is a “man after God’s own heart” and is commended as a model to imitate (Is 55:4). Therefore we will reference regularly how to cultivate a heart of worship like David’s. This is the type of heart God is looking for.
Rob Still is a worship leader, artisan, instructor and blogger in Nashville TN. He teaches at conferences and extensively on the mission field in eastern Europe – and blogs atRobStill.com.

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

welcome back to boring Indiana...

Well, made it back safe this afternoon.  Sunday Clint and I pushed it super hard, rode 1100 miles (we left around 6am and didn't get in until about 1am) and made it from Santa Fe, NM all the way to STL.  Then, I woke up and headed back for Indiana (another 400+ miles), only to find a million police officers in Illinois, and construction every 20 miles in Indiana.  It was a hard push, but I was super excited to see my bride, and a little white dog, who both missed me terribly.  I rolled in about 4pm super exhausted, hungry, and sunburnt, so after a long scrubbing in the shower, we ended up going out to dinner.


I thought it was only appropriate, because Clint and I were just in Texas yesterday! :)


The trip was super fun, and I loved spending time with Ashley's family.  I am so glad to be home though. I missed Ashley more than ever, but loved spending the time with her father, Amber and Jacob (Ashley's sister and brother in law), and her grandparents in Denver and Santa Fe.  Now, I am trying to persuade Ashley that God is "calling" us to Denver :)  The scenery is just breath taking on a motorcycle in that part of the country... I am sure God could use us there, right?!  Total trip ended up being right around 4000 miles, which translates into about 27 fill ups at the gas startions!!! (some of those were not quite empty though).  I wouldn't trade the trip for anything. The only thing that would have made it better is if Ashley would have been there to experience it with me, but I know there is no way she is ready for such an adventure yet, or maybe ever! My butt still hurts from yesterday! :)  I am trying to wait until at least tomorrow to get the bike up on the lift in the garage to start the cleaning, I know if I start tonight, I will still be up when the sun is rising scrubbing that thing! I am sure I will be posting some more pictures of the trip here soon, once I download them from the camera. The pictures already posted, were just random ones from my phone.

Saturday, June 4, 2011

It's been a few days, we have been busy busy! Wednesday we made the trip to Santa fe and it was quite nice except for the huge hail storm we ran into! It was crazy! Never been in a hail storm and there was so much that they actually got the plow trucks out after it was done. More than an inch and a half on the ground when it was all done. We ended up finding a bridge for coverage after getting pretty beat up! It was insane because we were in the middle of the desert. after that, we enjoyed the rest of the drive.

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I have gotten to spend quite a bit of time on the bike. The scenery is beautiful out here. Santa fe is an interesting place. All of the houses looks like this...

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It is really a unique place. I don't think I will ever come back if amber n Jacob leave. His internship is over at the end of the month so then they will prolly move back to STL. Denver was so amazing. Well, don't want to be too long, we r leaving in the morning, but here is some more pics!

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We r taking 2 days to get back to STL and then back to boring IN. I have been so spoiled with these amazing rides out here, not looking forward to riding in the most boring state in America :)
Tony

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

I am on a huge motorcycle trip with my father in law right now. We are heading to new mexico with a few stops here and there. we made it to Denver this morning. We hit horrible wind on the trip from basically Topeka KS on. At one point it was so strong it blew me off the road, so we stopped for supper to wait it out. Ended up about 100mi from Denver, getting a hotel for the nite. here is a pic. Under the clouds is a lower cloud. It was that dirt cloud that took me out! Haha I kept the bike up, but ended in the grass!
Here is the sunset after the wind calmed down
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We ended up staying at the hotel and ended up meeting someone w the same VTX as me, so this morning we rode out all together. He is part of the vtxoa, which is a website designed for ppl to communicate that have the same bikes as Clint and I so it was cool to meet someone from the website
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We got to Denver a little before lunch and ashley's grandparents showed us around and fed us and then I took off by myself up to the mountains! Here's some pics. We have had great weather. All that snow is just up and the mountains and it's surprisingly warm! The climate is so different from home! It must be the humidity.
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